Is he or Isn't he?

Ok, so I have a question

If you are having sex with someone and spending alone time and cuddling with them everytime you see eachother, don't you think that you would want to make this an offical relationship?..



Well needless to say I have witnessed this situation.

Poor girl crying in the hallway with her friends saying that this guy that she likes doesn't want to be with her and this guy seems like nothing is bothering him.

He says that he likes this girl but doesn't want a relationship because he is so scared of feeling any emotions because his last relationship fucked him up.

But at the same time here is this girl who has not had any steady and good relationships will still to give someone like this guy a chance.



Well what I don't understand is why can't this guy understand that he led this girl on

he woke her up in the middle of the night and started fucking her

and he pushed spending alone time with her

but here he is saying a big fat "NO" to a relationship with this girl.



But the only thing he tell her is

"we have to many mutual friends and its not about the destination, but about the journey"

What kind of bull shit is this?



Seriously I have heard some good lines from guys and girls

but this one has made top 10.



I seriously don't understand

maybe because I don't date guys and so therefore I do not know this area.

But seriously, is this guy avoiding a relationship because even though he says he likes her he just dont want the responsibility? or he is just not that into this girl and he just making it seem like it?



Answer me that